Trooper Nicholas P. Cayton
Ohio State Highway Patrol
End of watch: Oct. 16, 2025
Memorial wall: Panel 22
Wherever he went, whatever he was doing, Nick Cayton seemed to make a favorable impression.
As far back as middle school in Carrollton, before Brent Tharp had met his childhood friend, he was aware of the Nick “aura.”
“He had such a knack for making people feel welcome,” Tharp said. “He was a magnet – that’s just who he was. And people loved him for it.”
By all accounts, it was impossible not to love Nick Cayton, who in 2012 joined the Ohio State Highway Patrol as a trooper.
“Nick didn’t have an enemy in the world,” said Sgt. Steve Murphy, who worked with Cayton when both were troopers at the patrol’s Canfield Post. “You might get mad at him, but you couldn’t stay mad at him.”
Along with his charisma, Trooper Cayton’s intelligence and quick wit served him well for the 13 years he spent in law enforcement, fueling his success and compelling his superiors to keep nudging him to accept a promotion.
“He could really do anything and talk to anyone,” said Lt. Ben Dennison, commander of the Canfield Post. “He would have made a great sergeant.”
Tragically, around noon on Oct. 16, 2025, Trooper Cayton was killed while helping the driver of a disabled tractor-trailer on northbound Rt. 11 in Canfield. He was in his patrol cruiser with his overhead lights on when the driver of a Mack truck hit him, pushing his vehicle into the disabled semitruck.
The married father of two died at the scene. He was 40.
The driver of the disabled tractor-trailer was transported to a nearby hospital. The driver of the Mack truck was uninjured. The case remains under investigation.
During a Celebration of Life at Youngstown State University, his alma mater, Trooper Cayton was remembered as a devoted family man and dedicated public servant.
His commitment to public service began in college.
Tharp was visiting his friend at the YSU campus when Cayton first mentioned his interest in enlisting in the Ohio Army National Guard. The conversation took him by surprise, he said, because “growing up, Nick was not strait-laced – he was the complete opposite of ‘military.’ ”
Lynsey Stine, Nick’s girlfriend at the time and his future wife, was equally taken aback.
“I had never heard him talk about it before,” she recalled. “He said it was something he had been thinking about and was called to do. At first, I was against it. But he was dead set on it.”
Nick joined the Guard in 2007, the same year that he and Lynsey were married. A month-and-a-half after the wedding, he was deployed to Iraq, where he remained for about a year. A second deployment, in 2013, took him to Afghanistan.
Before finishing his Guard service as a staff sergeant in 2014, Cayton earned his bachelor’s degree in criminal justice from YSU, completed the Highway Patrol’s training academy and began working for the patrol at the Lisbon Post, moving about a year later to Canfield.
As committed as he was to his country and his community, Trooper Cayton was even more dedicated to priority No. 1, his family.
He and Lynsey met at Carrollton High School, where they began dating when she was a junior and he was a freshman.
“Nick had a great sense of humor, and I certainly appreciated that,” Lynsey said. “He was devoted and loyal and super-funny. It just made it kind of easy. We had our arguments like everybody else, but we never broke up.”
Nick followed Lynsey to Youngstown State, and, after she had graduated, they decided to marry. He had settled into his job with the Highway Patrol before they welcomed their son, Turner, in 2015 and their daughter, Romy, in 2017.
Nothing in life brought Trooper Cayton more joy than fatherhood.
“He was the ultimate family guy,” Sgt. Murphy said. “His cookie-cutter excuse was, ‘I can’t come – I have two kids.’ Nick was just present, and he would not miss a thing.”
Indeed, through the years his supervisors at the Highway Patrol had marked Trooper Cayton for promotions, but he resisted, not wanting to lose the seniority he had finally attained.
“He had worked midnights and afternoons for a very long time,” Lynsey said. “We waited so long to have kids, Nick didn’t want to be back on the night shift missing out on their sports and activities and just day-to-day life.”
Sports were always a big part of Nick’s world. He was a longtime fan of the Cleveland Browns, Cleveland Indians and Columbus Blue Jackets, and he coached some of his son’s sports teams.
As a kid growing up in New Harrisburg in Caroll County, he himself was a gifted athlete. He also had an intense curiosity that prompted him to both ask a lot of questions and want to try new things.
By high school, he was excelling at football, basketball and baseball, but he would likewise master skateboarding, rollerblading, snowboarding, water-skiing and more. He also taught himself to play the guitar and violin.
“Nick simply loved life, and everything it had to offer,” said Tharp, his longtime friend. “And he was genuinely talented at almost everything he touched.”
Steve Murphy was introduced to this side of his co-worker about 10 years ago, when Trooper Cayton set his sights on playing the bagpipes.
“He knew I was a bagpiper,” the sergeant recalled. “He approached me and said he wanted to learn. I kind of brushed him off because of the intricacy of the instrument, and I wasn’t sure he was serious.”
But Cayton persisted, so Murphy agreed to give him lessons.
“I thought bagpipes were going to be a flash in the pan for him, but he showed up religiously every Tuesday and adjusted his schedule to mine.”
Most people need many years to perfect the bagpipes, he said. Cayton needed less than a year.
“He truly excelled at it. I had to pass him on to a better instructor.”
Before long, Murphy founded Steel Valley Pipes & Drums, which later led to the creation of the State Patrol Pipes & Drums.
“Nick and I logged thousands and thousands of miles together in the car” to play with other bagpipers at the funerals of fallen officers and first responders throughout Ohio, Murphy said.
The more time the two spent together, the closer their relationship grew – so much so that they began taking family vacations together.
Then tragedy struck, and Sgt. Murphy suddenly found himself honoring his close friend in the same way they had honored so many fallen heroes together.
“I was numb,” he recalled. “I wanted to be able to play for Nick, but I had to stare at a fixed point on the ground. I couldn’t watch his casket pass because I would have lost it.”
In addition to his wife of 18 years and his children (Turner, 11, and Romy, 8), Trooper Cayton is survived by his mother, Cindy Cayton; father, Duwane Cayton; sister and brother-in-law Lainy and Jason Gooding, and their children, Lyza and Josey; sister and brother-in-law Sabrina and Shawn Simmons, and their kids, Kail, Karson and Kolt; in-laws Greg and Rhonda Smith and Sherman and Joyce Stine; grandmothers Kathy Taylor and Donna; and numerous other relatives.
On St. Patrick’s Day, when Steel Valley Pipes & Drums performed at Birdfish Brewery in Youngstown, the group also announced a scholarship in Trooper Cayton’s memory through the Youngstown State University Foundation.
Lynsey Cayton, who attended the event, expressed her gratitude that Nick will be remembered “in such an impactful way.”
Her husband’s passing has left “a gigantic void,” she said, but she soldiers on for the sake of their children.
“God put me in this situation, and I ask myself ‘why’ a hundred times a day,” she said. “I just feel like I have to somehow come up with the courage to be the best representation of Nick that I can be.”